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You’ve heard of “passenger princess”, but what do you call…

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Alyse A · · Unknown Hometown · Joined Mar 2021 · Points: 0

a friend/partner who only follows and never leads?

A following fraulein?

Other ideas?

Colin Rowe · · Scotland UK. · Joined Jun 2021 · Points: 426
Alyse A wrote:

a friend/partner who only follows and never leads?

A following fraulein?

Other ideas?

Yes it works if that is their agreed modus operandi. 

Colin Rowe · · Scotland UK. · Joined Jun 2021 · Points: 426

FrankPS · · Atascadero, CA · Joined Nov 2009 · Points: 276

A climbing partner.

Colin Rowe · · Scotland UK. · Joined Jun 2021 · Points: 426

One of my climbing partners who I have climbed with for over 20 years always follows (apart from a few exceptions on sport climbs) and I always lead. I have heard previous comments from climbers over the years who have stated that if you aren't leading you're not climbing. This is a curious belief and prescription. There exists many diverse climbing relationships. The key is to find what works for the people involved. 

Austin Donisan · · San Mateo, CA · Joined May 2014 · Points: 674

Top rope hero

ClimbingOn · · Unknown Hometown · Joined Aug 2008 · Points: 0

This has traditionally (since the 70s at least) been known as a sub man. 

Rasputin NLN · · fuckin Hawaii · Joined Aug 2018 · Points: 0

"Project belayer"

Valerie A B · · Las Vegas, NV · Joined Jun 2010 · Points: 37

A "priceless partner" (if they are solid). 

I have climbs I only want to lead. So, it is very nice to find a solid partner who only wants to follow. 

Bill Lawry · · Albuquerque, NM · Joined Apr 2006 · Points: 1,814
Valerie A B wrote:

A "priceless partner" (if they are solid). 

I have climbs I only want to lead. So, it is very nice to find a solid partner who only wants to follow. 

You, Colin, and Frank: spot on.

Still, there will be challenging multi where sharing leads makes all the difference in how the day goes.

But a name for “it”?  Really!?!?

Ally L · · Unknown Hometown · Joined Nov 2019 · Points: 40


(Side note: I’ll follow everything except two pitches and still tick “lead” on MP :))

Cosmic Hotdog · · Southern California · Joined Sep 2019 · Points: 300

Belay angel. I have no issues with that. People who don't carry gear - they can fuck right off

Bill Lawry · · Albuquerque, NM · Joined Apr 2006 · Points: 1,814

Ok - I can see it.  "Belay Angel" gets my vote

Charlie Kissick · · Unknown Hometown · Joined May 2023 · Points: 0

Cam follower. Get the pun?

Curmudgeon Don · · Montrose, Co · Joined Jul 2021 · Points: 0
Alyse A wrote:

a friend/partner who only follows and never leads?

A following fraulein?

Other ideas?

We call that “Nickelback-ing.”

Song: “Leader of Men” by Nickelback

Lyrics: “I am not a leader of men, since I prefer to follow.”

Seriously! Not joking. Check out the song…

Allen Sanderson · · On the road to perdition · Joined Jul 2007 · Points: 1,100
Alyse A wrote:

a friend/partner who only follows and never leads?

Someone who brings up the rear. And of course the pack with the beer.

Li Hu · · Different places · Joined Jul 2022 · Points: 55
Allen Sanderson wrote:

Someone who brings up the rear. And of course the pack with the beer.

Beer caddy.   

Cherokee Nunes · · Unknown Hometown · Joined May 2015 · Points: 0

Perma-client

Mikey Schaefer · · Reno, NV · Joined Jun 2014 · Points: 233

Haulbag With A Head

Bill Enger · · Seattle, WA · Joined Apr 2017 · Points: 456

For cragging, that's the perfect partner! For long, challenging routes in the mountains I'd rather have a partner who can share the load of leading.

Ben Hoste · · New Paltz, NY · Joined Apr 2015 · Points: 879

My wife doesn’t really like to climb but doesn’t mind belaying me for half a day every once in a while, she may climb one pitch on TR if I cajole her (this is all single pitch stuff). I call her my “Belady.”

Guideline #1: Don't be a jerk.

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