What is it REALLY like living in the Boulder bubble?
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Mark E Dixonwrote: This is super helpful, cheers Mark! I especially appreciate the responses about child care, schools, and family cragging. My ticks on MP are not up to date. No one in Australasia uses the site, we use thecrag, 8a, or nothing at all. Looking for sport routes from the .12+ to 13+ range these days, but also still very keen on adventure routes of any grade, especially long ones. Not much multipitch in NZ outside of the Darrans. My work schedule would likely allow me to get out some weekdays, so it’s good to know that many areas are uncrowned then. |
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LL2wrote: Fair question! Life in NZ is good for many reasons. Our daughter is a Kiwi citizen and we are dual US/Australian citizens, so we will always have a connection to this part of the world. But we also have a lot of family in the States, with some getting quite advanced in years. It would be nice to see them more often. But yeah, it does seem like a challenging time to return to America…. |
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Beta Slave, I suppose it depends on what you think is a good restaurant. Unfortunately, my all-time faves are gone. John's was the standout, but there were a few others. David, on the subject of children, Boulder is a good place to raise budding Olympic climbers. |
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John Clarkwrote: Hmmm ... odd. All the good people I've ever met in Boulder got fed up with the mean snobbiness and moved out to Reno. A much better place with no crowds and solid rock they told me. |
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Patrikwrote: Hey, stop revealing my ruse and recruiting that crowd to Reno |
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I love Boulder. I live in Marshall so I’m 5 minutes from Eldo and 5 minutes from South Boulder. Trails are great, great road rides and easy mountain bike trails out my door. Views are awesome. Certainly can be crowded on weekends but we didn’t see a single other party climbing yesterday (we were on Lost Angel In dream canyon, so not a secret crag). I’ve spent 5 days in RMNP so far this summer and have not seen too many climbers on the incredible alpine walls. We can generally climb wherever we want without too much hassle. Especially during the week. People are fine. Some are entitled idiots but most are nice. Just like anywhere. Home prices are expensive, I can’t argue with that statement. Skiing access is sucky due to I-70 unless you can go mid week. Backcountry access is ok above Boulder but the terrain isn’t amazing and the wind doesn’t ever stop in the Winter. |
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David Jeffersonwrote: I've lived in Boulder for 14 years. Housing prices are certainly an issue. Median price for a single family home is about $1 million, and that $1 million home will not be new construction unless it is a townhouse or large condo. A $1 million detached single family home in Boulder is older and possibly a fixer upper. I'd recommend renting at first while you get a feel for neighborhoods and keep an eye on what comes on the market. North Boulder, East Boulder, South Boulder, and downtown all have very different feels, types of housing, and circulation patterns. Whether you find the people to be snooty probably depends on what you're used to. I don't expect everyone on the trail to smile and acknowledge me. I often say hi as I pass, but not always, and I'm fine if folks just want to focus on their own experience. If your politics are vocally conservative, you'll probably get a chilly reception and may feel alienated by the number of pride flags and "in this house we believe love makes a family, black lives matter, no human being is illegal" etc. signs around town, just as I feel less comfortable in other parts of the country where people's yard signs speak of guns and Christianity. As for finding climbing partners, many people who have been in town a long time already have long-term relationships with as many partners as they can handle and don't have much availability to take on new ones, but this is balanced by the number of newcomers who are making friends and trying to find their climbing family. |
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Greg Miller wrote: And you're still living here because? |
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wendy weisswrote: For the same reasons I'm still in California! Friends, home, beautiful area, familiarity, etc. But there are some downsides, too, just like in Boulder. (Sorry Greg, didn't mean to answer for you) |
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Smells like entitlement to me. |
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FrankPSwrote: Yeah, but you're in Atascadero so...... EDIT: mostly shiting on Atascadero because it's fun to and because getting there from my hometown means driving up the grade which I never enjoyed. |
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I'll just chime in again to echo what several posters have said: Any place is what you make of it. There are snobs and posers here in Santa Fe to be sure. I choose not to focus on them. I focus on the "brothers". That's a real term here with real meaning. Meaning that even the people here who are from multi-generational families who are barely able to live here anymore (median house price now approaching $800,000, up from $500,000 a year ago) that you actually engage with are pretty easygoing and truly believe that we are all brothers and sisters here. It all depends on whether you engage or not. A little friendliness goes a long ways. I could easily be pegged as yet another white transplant moving to Santa Fe and contributing to the displacement of multi-generational families (and I am). But the fact that I engage with the man or woman at the register of my local Allsops (which is regularly shut down for lack of staffing or police incidents), or simply slip in a little "thanks, brother", gives us a sense of connectivity. It's a thing of value to hear someone say "brother" here. I have taken that to heart. On our way to El Rito today, desperately in search of a breakfast burrito, we got shut down twice due to local convenience stores not being able to staff their grills. At the second, a little girl honed in on my Pikachu t-shirt and told me that she loves Pikachu and has a full costume, and thought it was funny that I (presumably as an adult) had a Pikachu t-shirt. Her father obviously didn't speak English so we had this little moment where her daughter was conversing with me, the father wasn't following the conversation, the workers at the convenience store were watching and entertained, and all of us left with a smile on our face. My point is that you get what you give. There's a lot of grumbling and deserved angst in Santa Fe and Northern NM. When you recognize that this is the situation you live in, and make an effort to acknowledge it and honor it, you get good returns. And everybody is happier for it. |
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Greg Miller wrote: …and celibacy to vigorously maintain. |
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Marc801 Cwrote: Given our current situation, with another trump candidacy waiting in the wings, can you really say that? Canadian PM used emergency powers to remove peaceful non-violent protesters. |
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My favorite part of having lived here for almost 15 years is hearing all of the negative things regarding Boulder. I just have to keep reminding myself that the person spraying all of the hate is the nice person, but I am the entitled, rude, pretentious, (insert negative adjective here) person just because of where I live. It’s a weird Jedi mind trick, for sure! |
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Matt D wrote: When a high percentage of NYC/Boston/jersey folks all move to the same place you start getting that east coast vibe, its inevitable. |
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M Mwrote: if by vibe you mean good food.... the biggest downside to boulder is the food. i think it's cute when people call moe's a good bagel. GTFO... |
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I lived in Boulder for a few years....but my husband and I left for Denver don't regret it. Reason? It was just too Boulder in Boulder nawatimean? We still get out every weekend, sometimes weekday evenings, we're close to the i70 and 285 corridors for ski-ventures and weekend climbing. I don't feel like I climb/run/ski/play outside any less. The access in Boulder is rad, but there's more to life than running up the second on a weekday. I looooove the crag that we frequent now way more than any of the polished shitty BoCan or ClearCreek crags (not going to name it lest I blow it up) :) We were hanging out in Boulder this weekend and we talked about if we'd ever move back. Trails are stupidly crowded, way more than when we left 5 years ago. The quality of house you get for 1mil is terrible - shitty low ceiling single family homes built in the 70s. Everyone is buying ...then spending all their weekends renovating. If you don't have a white Tesla and run 17 miles before work every morning you might as well give up and move to one of the 'L's. Agree with previous comments that the food sucks ALTHOUGH we did see that there's now a Rosenbergs so maybe you can get a decentish bagel! We still have a crew of great friends in Boulder, but we're definitely not moving back. |
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Boulder stands out to me as the one town where you can be in a checkout line in the grocery store and hear folks spraying other folks down with what they did yesterday. It was so incredible! |





