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Is your masculinity in climbing toxic?

Yury · · Unknown Hometown · Joined Oct 2014 · Points: 0

In "The Best Troll" contest I vote for K. Le Douche.
I really enjoyed his masterpieces here.
  

Dan Austin · · San Francisco, CA · Joined Oct 2010 · Points: 0
Jon Ruland wrote:

jesus Christ, I came to the MP forums instead of Facebook to get away from this shit. is there no place on the internet I can go without being bombarded by people trying to make me feel guilty for being a man?

Who is trying to make you feel guilty, and in what way?

mediocre · · Unknown Hometown · Joined Jul 2013 · Points: 0
Jon Ruland wrote:

jesus Christ, I came to the MP forums instead of Facebook to get away from this shit. is there no place on the internet I can go without being bombarded by people trying to make me feel guilty for being a man?

Don't be such a pussy. You dick.

Tim Stich · · Colorado Springs, Colorado · Joined Jan 2001 · Points: 1,520

When I first read the title of this thread, I expected the gist of the post to be the same. But instead I understood it to say was macho thinking toxic to men, ie. did it get us into trouble. I know the thread title is troll bait, but the post said something different. I'm not going to go back and read it again, but honestly, I didn't percieve it as an attack on men in general. 

Anyway, my bros! The sun is still with us this October. Get ye out of doors and forget this whole string of words!

Old lady H · · Boise, ID · Joined Aug 2015 · Points: 1,374
Jon Ruland wrote:

jesus Christ, I came to the MP forums instead of Facebook to get away from this shit. is there no place on the internet I can go without being bombarded by people trying to make me feel guilty for being a man?

You may send me chocolate if it would make ya feel better...

:-) H.

djh860 · · Unknown Hometown · Joined Dec 2014 · Points: 110
King Tut wrote:

And there you have it. Police in poor Black Neighborhoods are justified to shoot unarmed men running away from them because, wait for it...the people that commit crimes there are Black....?

And what about the poor white neighborhoods, all the dangerous criminals there are white too...how do they tell the real threat?

The question it raises is more important though: Why has those poor Black Neighborhoods persisted for 20 years (and sometimes gotten worse) instead of better?

Is it because Black Americans have "cultural and behavioral issues" like Yury suggested that Italians and Irish Americans were able to overcome?

Or is it because of systemic racism that continues to oppress them (see Ferguson, MO)?

Methinks it was because Irish and Italians (that were brutally discriminated against around 1900) once they lose the accent pass as white.

what a silly leap you make when you say "justified to shoot unarmed men running away"  only a dolt could come to such a conclusion.  Nothing I wrote suggested anything of that sort.

John Barritt · · The 405 · Joined Oct 2016 · Points: 1,083
mediocre wrote:

Don't be such a pussy. You dick.

Too cerebral perhaps? I got it though...... ;)

Kyle Taylor · · Broomfield CO · Joined Sep 2017 · Points: 0

I wanted to drop this here- I've been in and out of this thread but as gut wrenching as this is to listen to, I think we can all agree that this is a much larger problem than our petty cultural war in the US. Together we can fix this because it cannot continue- will we be the generation that sits back and let's real slavery continue? 

https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/show-1949-modern-slavery/id122415315? I'm i=1000393063048&mt=2

cragmantoo · · Unknown Hometown · Joined Mar 2015 · Points: 175
Kyle Taylor wrote:

I wanted to drop this here- I've been in and out of this thread but as gut wrenching as this is to listen to, I think we can all agree that this is a much larger problem than our petty cultural war in the US. Together we can fix this because it cannot continue- will we be the generation that sits back and let's real slavery continue? 

https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/show-1949-modern-slavery/id122415315? I'm i=1000393063048&mt=2

wow. Makes arguing about socks and our "petty cultural war" feel pretty embarrassing

Kyle Taylor · · Broomfield CO · Joined Sep 2017 · Points: 0
cragmantoo wrote:

wow. Makes arguing about socks and our "petty cultural war" feel pretty embarrassing

That's not my intent so I apologize however perspective is everything and I do think we tend to get lost in our bubbles. 

cragmantoo · · Unknown Hometown · Joined Mar 2015 · Points: 175
Kyle Taylor wrote:

That's not my intent so I apologize however perspective is everything and I do think we tend to get lost on our bubbles. 

No need to apologize, I agree

ChapelPond Girl · · Keene, NY · Joined Oct 2016 · Points: 230
reboot wrote:

No, I don't assume to understand social behaviors of women, but you seems to be pretty sure of men.

Reboot.  Take it from me....Lena is spot on.

reboot · · . · Joined Jul 2006 · Points: 125
ChapelPondGirl wrote:

Reboot.  Take it from me....Lena is spot on.

So, both you & Lena know what men are talking about in all scenarios that are: in the absence of women, and in a conversation that's not about women.

Do tell me, what relevant experience do either of you have?

Kevin R · · Boulder, CO · Joined May 2008 · Points: 290
Jake Jones wrote:

Did you have a black friend in college too?

I'm not sure I understand the relation between African Americans and spandex...

Sounds pretty racist though...

Lemme guess...Cis-gender, straight, white, male aware of your privilege, but have yet to fully internalize and atone for your privilege... Probably haven't even paid a dime in reparations yet...

Anonymous · · Unknown Hometown · Joined unknown · Points: 0
Jake Jones wrote:

Did you have a black friend in college too?

No I majored in IT so we didn't really have many black folks around. There was 1 black chick who was one of the top in our graduating class but she wasn't much into outdoors activities. One black guy I would ski with some (made sure I had no classes on Tuesday / Thursday so i could drive a few hours to go skiing than be tired and skip classes the next day).

I skipped probably half my classes in college... most of them were boring and I just played video games in the back when I did show up.

Most of my black friends are still over in Malawi, Africa from the time I spent there after I finished college. (really annoying cause almost all of them still get flagged as spam if they send me an email even after I have marked them as non-spam)

Aleks Zebastian · · Boulder, CO · Joined Jul 2014 · Points: 175

climbing friend,

I have new black friend who he has contacted me on gmail.com!!! 

He does not do the climbing and seems quite confused by terminology of "bold flash," and he does not seem to want to discuss the climbing rocks or how to impress others or sculpt your guns and formidable layers neck meat at all! but he is cousin of nigerian prince Abakaliki, and he is having hundreds-o-millions tied up in oil pipeline project construction delayments and bribery of local officials. I would be paying the exorbitant fees to get the money out of this foreign bank account for this project for this poor nice man Mr. Peter Attah Kumalo of great Benin City, at which point he would then be wiring me forthwith $1.2 milliones as reward!!! It is nothing to him compare to his family fortune, so he just would not mind payment of such generous reward small favor from his pale white strong man friend Aleks Z!!

cragmantoo · · Unknown Hometown · Joined Mar 2015 · Points: 175
Aleks Zebastian wrote:

climbing friend,

I have new black friend who he has contacted me on gmail.com!!! 

He does not do the climbing and seems quite confused by terminology of "bold flash," and he does not seem to want to discuss the climbing rocks or how to impress others or sculpt your guns and formidable layers neck meat at all! but he is cousin of nigerian prince Abakaliki, and he is having hundreds-o-millions tied up in oil pipeline project construction delayments and bribery of local officials. I would be paying the exorbitant fees to get the money out of this foreign bank account for this project for this poor nice man Mr. Peter Attah Kumalo of great Benin City, at which point he would then be wiring me forthwith $1.2 milliones as reward!!! It is nothing to him compare to his family fortune, so he just would not mind payment of such generous reward small favor from his pale white strong man friend Aleks Z!!

What a deal!

FrankPS · · Atascadero, CA · Joined Nov 2009 · Points: 276
Aleks Zebastian wrote:

climbing friend,

I have new black friend who he has contacted me on gmail.com!!! 

He does not do the climbing and seems quite confused by terminology of "bold flash," and he does not seem to want to discuss the climbing rocks or how to impress others or sculpt your guns and formidable layers neck meat at all! but he is cousin of nigerian prince Abakaliki, and he is having hundreds-o-millions tied up in oil pipeline project construction delayments and bribery of local officials. I would be paying the exorbitant fees to get the money out of this foreign bank account for this project for this poor nice man Mr. Peter Attah Kumalo of great Benin City, at which point he would then be wiring me forthwith $1.2 milliones as reward!!! It is nothing to him compare to his family fortune, so he just would not mind payment of such generous reward small favor from his pale white strong man friend Aleks Z!!

You're such a lucky guy. Some guys get all the breaks!

Kyle Elliott · · Granite falls · Joined Jul 2015 · Points: 1,718

This thread's reply count has surpassed a Q&A with Alex Honnold. 

Ray Pinpillage · · West Egg · Joined Jul 2010 · Points: 180
Kyle Elliott wrote:

This thread's reply count has surpassed a Q&A with Alex Honnold. 

Maybe Alex could bring his SJW social media presence to this thread to pump up those numbers?

Guideline #1: Don't be a jerk.

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