Losing your climbing psych
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So after the best year as far as hard redpoints go for me last year, I find myself this year not stoked or motivated to climb. I don't know what happened but I hope it goes away and I'm motivated again. I had a personal best of my hardest grade ever last year and suddenly now I just don't care. I thought maybe climbing easy stuff could help get me back, but if I'm not trying hard I get bored. Has anyone had this happen to them? |
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After reading your contributions to MP it seems that finding something that makes you feel positive and therefore psyched would help. |
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Find other hobbies, dude. I've invested in my ability to perform other hobbies that require some training. Scuba diving, skydiving, kiteboarding. I've met climbers that lose psych in a crag in which they've redpointed the hardest route. They don't wanna go back to that same place. It's ok to get bored with something. |
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What I did was get my friends into climbing when I lost y stoke. Many had voiced interest but I had been too busy with my own goals to give them any time. Getting new people into climbing will get your motivation back by just hearing and seeing their stoke for the sport. Give it a try. |
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Have you thought about trying a different kind of climbing? E.g if you're a sport climbing hardman, try learning/pushing your grade in trad? Or, ice/alpine? |
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It's fine to take a break. I was heavy into climbing all through the 80's and into the mid 90's and then I found steep creeping kayaking and it all consumed me, especially during the winter months. Climbing became secondary and that was fine. Then wrecked my back at work and ended up having surgery which put an end to serious kayaking. After my back healed enough to become active again I started climbing again. No at almost 50 y/o I am not climbing as hard as I used to climb but close. What I have found is that my lead head is much better now than ever, especially in regards to trad climbing. I don't know if kayaking helped my lead head or my getting into big wall aid climbing in the last few years. Take a break but stay active in something. |
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Okay so I work in a psych profession so I'll have to ask this: Are you climbing for YOU or for others? Generally, when we are pouring our energy into appearances for others it's not "authentic" and thus draining. Or maybe sending your goal left you feeling empty for reasons unrelated to climbing... I would suggest that you think about getting "whole" first, and add climbing, not the other way around. People only power through stuff and come out the other side to the good because they LOVE what they're doing deep down. People who power through stuff without the love or because they have to will burn out. |
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Try onsighting, trad, simul climb fun easy stuff |
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Yeah, climbing's OK. But everyone loves cars and girls. |
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Go with fly fishing it is worth the time. |
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After many years of climbing I got really into fly fishing. After foot surgery the fishing took priority. Wading and rock scrambling can be a lot of fun with some climbing skill... |
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Matthew Williams 1 wrote:Okay so I work in a psych profession so I'll have to ask this: Are you climbing for YOU or for others? Generally, when we are pouring our energy into appearances for others it's not "authentic" and thus draining. Or maybe sending your goal left you feeling empty for reasons unrelated to climbing... I would suggest that you think about getting "whole" first, and add climbing, not the other way around. People only power through stuff and come out the other side to the good because they LOVE what they're doing deep down. People who power through stuff without the love or because they have to will burn out.WISE WORDS! After 5 years or so of constant, crazed climbing and living a climbing life 24/7 (because that's what friends/boyfriends/etc...did) I realized I kind of....hated it. I did a total 180. It wasn't fun and didn't make ME happy and I was exhausted by doing it for so long to make others happy. So I stopped and took up trail running, hiking, etc...and have had a blast! I still climb, much mellower and less often, but at least I have found the balance and am aware of what I care about and don't truly care about. I don't give a crap if I ever get on a hard 11 or 12 ever again! So my advice: take some time off. Do some other things. Come back in time and try it out again. The psych may or may not return---and that's OK!!! Good luck! ;-) |
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Take some time off and do something else you enjoy (like fly fishing). In my late 20s I developed tendonitis in both elbows from sport climbing and was unmotivated to climb. I stopped climbing for ~4 years and did a ton of road biking and ultrarunning. Now, once again, climbing is my primary sport. |
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Jon Rhoderick wrote:Try onsighting, trad, simul climb fun easy stuff Ask yourself why your doing it? Do you have an end goal route or is it more ethereal? Who do you climb with? Who do you have fun climbing with?I was going to say something similar, that and climbing for me is more about the people I choose to climb with, the fun and the cool rock way before the onsights,redpoints and pinkpoints. Of course it hasnt always been this way, many ups and downs and other hobbies along the way. |
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Kevin Mokracek wrote:It's fine to take a break. I was heavy into climbing all through the 80's and into the mid 90's and then I found steep creeping kayaking and it all consumed me, especially during the winter months. Climbing became secondary and that was fine. .I'm deep into kayaking right now but for me it's all about where I live. In Washington state rain is the only guarantee so naturally kayaking took over my life. Now that i'm moving back to Montana climbing will take over because it has a longer good season than kayaking....it all depends on how happy they make me feel. |
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Ice, alpine, aid, trad, bouldering, big wall, sport, new routing. Kinda guessing you mostly sport climb since you said redpoint (could be wrong). If I'm right you should pursue other climbing avenues and see it you get psyched. |
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The same thing happened to me. I took a break and studied Muay Thai for 18 months. Came back to climbing with a new and improved attitude. |
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Thank you All for good advice. Yes, I believe I burnt myself out on climbing. Always projecting hard sport lines has exhausted my psych. I think I will take break for few months from climbing all together. Time to go trout fishing, I try climbing again this summer, perhaps alpine trad stuff. As much as I love hard sport I need break from it, maybe a full year. Last year I redpointed my mega project but now I want to not climb these things at all. |
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I didn't read much of these posts and I'm definitely a latecomer but if you're burnt out on hard sport, do some "easy" alpine routes if you can... 1500 feet of 5.8 in a beautiful alpine setting is sure as shit more inspiring then a contrived 12d in some hot, sweaty canyon. |
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Have you considered going out and finding a big face somewhere in the back country, locating a line, and climbing it? If you like being outdoors you probably won't mind hiking some back country to find something worth lugging gear to. You may even enjoy it. Seems like a totally different experience to hard sport, which is what you seem to want. |
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I think this is pretty normal for a lot of folks, especially as work and family become higher priorities. I've had two major breaks over the last 35 years. |