Another “to the party near us at the Gunks today...”
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Top roping the first pitch of a classic multi-pitch route is not only irritating, but rude, and generally speaking, “a dick move.” Top roping the first pitches of classic multi-pitch routes that are 100 yards apart and screaming gear beta at each other is bordering on idiocy. Also, no one wants to hear, in uncomfortably detailed and vivid language, your weird sexual fantasies about your climbing partners and significant others. Yes, you were extremely loud. Yes, we could hear you even on the second pitch of a route 100’ to the side. Yes, other people there were like “wtf is going on.” You are in a shared, public space, and the rest of us would appreciate it if you could be more self-aware. |
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Which routes? |
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This is why I just can't go to the Gunks. I don't care how good the climbing is. Such a shit show. |
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Lol. That must have been your first time to the Gunks |
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Hanging around people who obsess over crawling up rocks and you expect civility? |
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Screaming gear beta while all persons involved are top-roping? Something doesn’t add up. |
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P Chetby wrote: Someone was bound to ask! We were heading up wanting to get as far away from them as possible, and I didn’t think that screaming down at them was going to improve the overall situation. Had we been on the ground, I have no problem going over to strangers and having a conversation whether it be about the weather, the climbing, beta, or their asinine behavior. Yes, there’s always dumb shit happening near popular routes at the Gunks, and I’m totally used to it. But since they were a group of three men and one woman (who looked extremely uncomfortable during all this), and my female partner was very unsettled, I decided to make a post. I believe they were hogging Baby and City Lights (shouting around each other with that big boulder between them) and then congregated under what appeared to be Frog’s Head to discuss their dream conquests. |
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SethG wrote: Lol. The guys leading the routes to put them up thought they were hot shit and apparently needed microcam beta. Thanks for catching that. |
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Doctor Drake wrote: This isn't "to the party near us at the Gunks today" because that party probably isn't going to read this, and if they do read it, they probably aren't going to think it's directed at them. If you wanted to address their behavior, you had your chance when you were next to them. This is just you whining. It doesn't solve the problem, but it does create a new, separate annoyance for the rest of us. You are in a shared, public space, and the rest of us would appreciate it if you could be more self-aware. ;) |
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So lets hear some more about the weird sexual fantasies. We haven't passed full judgement yet. |
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Cherokee Nunes wrote: Something something nothing but a harness something something daddy something something my girlfriend doesn’t like it so I have to find a different chick. We were all pretty grossed out. |
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I dont understand why more people dont confront strangers who are being morons. The world would be a better place if people were honest to one another. To them, you'll either be that one weird asshole who is too sensitive or one of many who tell you to shut up and stop being rude. The party involved should feel that pressure to change and fall into place like the rest of the crag...maybe they dont know its poor etiquette, but if thats the case, they still dont know cause you didnt want to "upset them" face to face. |
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Sincere question - have you climbed at the Gunks? This would be more than a full time job. You simply cannot save the world from itself. Best to go somewhere else if it bothers you. (or me, or anyone) |
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most problems in the gunks can be solved by confronting the party or walking an additional five minutes. |
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Cherokee Nunes wrote: many hands make light work ... that's my point. If its truly the ethic, then the community around should all speak up ... if I went to the gunks with a drill and bolts and started up a climb, how many people would speak up? Just saying, there is a level of crossing the line where you would say something... so move that line to minor offenses or dont complain about them. |
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So you pro-confrontation folks - are you an exception at 6’6 250 lbs of ripped muscle that scares people, or have you found like most of us adults - that confronting assholes acting like assholes has a 0% chance of success and a 100% chance of making you even more pissed off and matters generally worse? Just leave. You likely got out of bed too late and went somewhere convenient, easy and popular - do better next time. |
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The op and the following comments have got people thinking about how to deal with these sorts of situations, there's value in that. |
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From a lot of the posts here it sounds like most of you would have been in favor of me screaming down from above at these people. To me, that’s also incredibly obnoxious. I generally am pretty good about confronting obnoxious behavior on the ground, if it is actively disturbing myself and others. Seriously, if you were a pitch up and heard some idiots yelling about how they wanted to copulate in nothing but a harness, would you try and talk to them? I would’ve airmailed a paper airplane down at them with a message if I could have. |
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Why is it people have no problem expressing their perspective on a situation that makes them uncomfortable online but not so in person? Calmly provide your perspective and move on. You'll feel better about yourself, give them something to think about, and not have to get beat up online for having no backbone. If you don't stand for something you'll fall for anything. |
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Parachute Adams wrote: Hiding behind pseudonyms makes people say all kind of things.. Maybe one should bring their favorite Halloween mask to the cliff? |