Acceptance of death and climbing
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To answer you Rob: I do free solo. I have a passion for multi-pitch free soloing. I also have soloed at Pond Bank! Cool man. What a great place. |
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Some of your more glossy and poetic climbing mags seem to mention death almost every page. Whether you accept it or not, it's going to happen. What puts me off is what I perceive as its glorification. |
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Wannabe wrote:Death is definitely not okay to me. I intellectually understand that I'm choosing to engage in an activity that increases my risk of death but I'm certainly not okay with it. Having a young child only made me even less okay with it. The only reason I continue to climb is that I feel its benefits for my life and by extension my loved ones outweigh the risks. The clarity and singlemindedness I can have while climbing are hard for me find elsewhere. The discipline and thoughtfulness about my actions, my partners and my objectives have spilled over into other areas of my life slowly. Climbing, mistakes made while climbing and their consequences are very real, and they're real in a way that's hard to duplicate in much of my life. I really value these things. I've thought about it and I'm not sure I could give up climbing but let's say I could. My suspicion is that my family would have to get accustomed to living with a person who was less happy, less dynamic and was learning and growing less. Maybe that's a trade they'd make after the fact if I'm killed at some point but its not a trade I'm ready to make at this point. All that having been said I do feel a tremendous responsibility to my child to not act in a haphazard or cavalier way while climbing. I certainly think its impacted the grade that I will lead at. I always want to feel a comfort zone between what I know is my physical limit and what I'm leading when on gear. So while I think I've accepted that I may die while climbing my efforts to avoid dying while climbing have also impacted my climbing. Not much of a samurai mindset is it? --Wannabegreat post |
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There may also be an element of the belief by many people that they have control over there lives. People that think it's dangerous perceive a loss of control while soloist feel in complete control (ideally). Reality is that we have very little control over what happens in our lives. |
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I guess I am not connecting acceptance of death and climbing. What's the connection? |
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David Barbour wrote:Is driving a car worth your death?Good point. Under some circumstances driving to and from a climbing area might be as risky as the climbing itself. |
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Prior to having a kid, I thought about it occasionally. Now that I have a young son, I think about it constantly. I hope this doesn't change, because no matter how much I enjoy climbing and all the positive ways it influences my life, it isn't worth dying over (for me). |
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Wannabe - great post man. |
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Mike Oxlong wrote: Reality is that we have very little control over what happens in our lives.Say what? I don't know why I'm typing this!!! WTF!!! AAAAHH!!! If that's what you need to comfort yourself on a runout or solo... I dunno. I was destined/pre-determined to die today? Yeah, okay. |
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Jason Kim wrote:Seems like info that would be best suited for insurance companies. I am very skeptical that the average driver is subjected to more lifetime risk than the average (outdoors) climber.Insurance companies put their money where their mouth is, to the tune of billions of dollars per anum. I can't think of any more emphatic understanding of risk, aside from personal acceptance of death. |
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Matt N wrote: Is driving? Is crossing a street? Is leaving the house? We all draw the line somewhere.Matt N got the crux of the situation here. |
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My perspective is that risk behavoir needs to be adapted to the situation. For example, I have 5 children. When they we young I reduced my risk level. It was the responsible thing to do. Now they are adults, and I push it to the edge again. |
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Steve House's monologue in the short film Shattered is really telling on the subject. He says "is there a fear more profound than death? My greatest fear is that I'm unworthy of being loved". |
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Timothy.Klein wrote: Insurance companies put their money where their mouth is, to the tune of billions of dollars per anum. I can't think of any more emphatic understanding of risk, aside from personal acceptance of death.There are far too many variables involved to categorically claim that one activity is any more dangerous than the other, unless you're assessing these risks within the context of a single person. My climbing vs. my driving. Insurance companies are good at assessing group risk. Individual risk, much less so. In any case, there's no point comparing the multi-billion dollar auto insurance industry to a virtually non-existent climbing insurance industry. The auto insurance industry is able to come up with a fairly accurate understanding of lifetime risk of injury and death for most drivers. If a large climbing insurance industry existed, it might be able to do the same. Unfortunately, it does not. |
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everyone dies ... its what you do in life that matters ... |
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There's a big fallacy in the "Car verses climbing logic". Just because driving a car is dangerous doesn't make climbing safe. Truth is, we all drive almost everyday. But climbers also participate in an additional dangerous activity everyday (if we're lucky!). If you drive AND climb, you're more at risk of dying than someone who doesn't climb. Don't try to kid yourself. |
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I get more anxiety from driving in rush hour traffic then on a run-out josh slab. I know what to expect from a whipper But I'm not sure what happens if I fly under a semi. |
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aaron hope wrote:There's a big fallacy in the "Car verses climbing logic". Just because driving a car is dangerous doesn't make climbing safe. Truth is, we all drive almost everyday. But climbers also participate in an additional dangerous activity everyday (if we're lucky!). If you drive AND climb, you're more at risk of dying than someone who doesn't climb. Don't try to kid yourself.People who don't climb do things that are probably as dangerous as climbing, too. Look at this-- broad statistics, so generally useless, but on average rock climbing is relatively safe... medicine.ox.ac.uk/bandolier… Swimming, Cycling, Running, all have more deaths per activity than rock climbing. Even 'Sudden cardiac arrest while running a marathon' is higher up than climbing. What about the people that absolutely do nothing, eat terribly, smoke, drink, etc. That's got to have overall more risk than most sports I know. Safer than table-tennis is in Germany?!?! Whaaaaaaat? |
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I'll chime in on this one: Disagree with any of the statistics because they're flawed. Sure running is inherently dangerous but it also builds cardiac strength, reduces stress levels, etc. etc. You can make this argument for a car...with a car you drive to work, if you can work, maybe you're getting health insurance with the health insurance you can get medical care...My overall point is these statistics don't take into account a world without these things because those experiments are nearly impossible to regulate. Just my 2cents...oh yeah and death scares the bejesus outta me. |
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Travis Haussener wrote:I'll chime in on this one: Disagree with any of the statistics because they're flawed. Sure running is inherently dangerous but it also builds cardiac strength, reduces stress levels, etc. etc. You can make this argument for a car...with a car you drive to work, if you can work, maybe you're getting health insurance with the health insurance you can get medical care...My overall point is these statistics don't take into account a world without these things because those experiments are nearly impossible to regulate. Just my 2cents...oh yeah and death scares the bejesus outta me.Climbing doesn't build strength and reduce stress? What about driving through traffic causing stress? Those statistics are about accidents. Not overall impact on your life. Do you know, overall, if you're younger, what your death will likely be? An accident. Be it car, climbing, bike, running, etc. That's what I think what we're all getting at here I think... death by accident, and comparing people's hobbies. If you climb on the weekends or bike on weekends, yet have exact same jobs, with the exact same commute, eat the same diet, and are clones of eachother, you will more likely die biking. Personally, mountain biking scares me much more than climbing... Mountain biking is the most dangerous thing I do-- Less of a death risk, IMO, but much higher risk of crippling injuries. Yeah, yeah, statistics are broad numbers, not individual cases, but they do have their place in evaluating risks and such. I still can't get past that statistically, more people die per player from playing table-tennis in Germany than people die per climber in the UK.... Hahah. Next time I get a solid placement I'll think to myself, "Welp, that's safer than playing table-tennis in Germany!" |